I hear many separating parents claim how mature their children are during their separation. But think of it carefully. What would prompt you to acknowledge this? If a separation is…
Many people ask me what exactly is Mediation and why is it better? “Mediation is a voluntary process that can help two sides to reach an acceptable solution to their…
A divorce/separation remains one of the most traumatic life event with parents finding themselves at wits ends over their never-ending conflicts, expensive lawyers bills and court appearances, all in the…
While a relationship breakup requires that many aspects of oneself and one’s life need to be re-looked, it is sad that one’s role as a parent often seems to be…
My journey with Choice Theory started 10 years ago when I picked up a book from William Glasser and began my emotional awakening. Until I started learning Choice Theory, I…
The ultimate questions to getting separated are: How do I move forward? How do I co-parent, when I no longer trust the person that I trusted the most in my…
10 years ago, I became acquainted with the teachings of Dr William Glasser, the developer of Choice Theory and Reality Therapy. This concept changed my life in that I would never go…
The Day of Reconciliation came into effect after the 1994 first non-racial and democratic government. It had the mission to promote reconciliation and national unity as it recognised the need…
Through out the year, I see parents in my practice who want what is best for their children, and who realise that their ongoing co-parenting conflicts bring nothing good for…