The Day of Reconciliation came into effect after the 1994 first non-racial and democratic government. It had the mission to promote reconciliation and national unity as it recognised the need…
Through out the year, I see parents in my practice who want what is best for their children, and who realise that their ongoing co-parenting conflicts bring nothing good for…
As 2016 reaches to an end, many of us like to reflect on the past year. For many, looking back is a source of disappointment, sadness and wondering what they…
A separation can make you reconsider many things about yourself, your future and your parenting. While I insist that parents who separate remain the same parents they were before, for…
As a professional in the field of divorce support, this is a sentence I often read and hear: How much maintenance should I pay? The legal implications state that it…
In the lights of the recent news of Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt’s divorce, we really ought to question when did the act of divorcing decide that one of the…
A divorce/separation has the aim to end a relationship two adults no longer wish to have together. Whether the separation is consenting or not, it is necessary to acknowledge that…
“Tell me, if you were in my position, what would you do? What position is that? Imagine your husband bought a gold necklace, and come Christmas gave it to somebody…
I’m sure you are all too familiar with the saying it takes 2 to tango. The tango is a dance which requires two partners moving in relation to each other….
How many parents will identify they have some variant of a “swear jar” at home? It’s been recognised by many households to be a way to raise awareness of some…