February is the month of Love, and what a better way to celebrate Love by giving your relationship some TLC.
REALationship Coaching is not just for couples who are currently struggling, but for individuals who are mindful about keeping it REAL and understand that just like a car, it needs to be serviced.
My REALationship Coaching is based on “My Blueprint” model.
For those who are not yet familiar with the “My Blueprint” model, it is an easy model which brings awareness as to why we do the things we do and how to get what we want in an efficient and responsible manner.
Many couples who come forward with their relationship challenges often have these in common:
- They want a quick fix
- They want the other person to change
My favourite thing to do is a REALITY Check. Hence the use of REAL in my REALationship coaching.
There are 3 main points I will emphasise:
- There are no happy relationships if the individuals in the relationship are not happy themselves
- No one is ever blameless
- The only person whose behaviour you can change is your own.
Then, the next step is to understand that the coaching will need a lot of your involvement in the beginning. You will need to perform the skills taught on your own, without my involvement.
If you are ready to consider these, then you are more likely going to enjoy results, but if you catch yourself finding excuses, however valid they are, your wish to improve your relationship is not only not a priority to you, but you are likely believing that it is not your responsibility to do the work and that your unhappiness in the relationship is the fault of the other person.
While your “partner” may be in the wrong on many things, recognising and taking responsibility for your role in the problem is the only way towards a solution.
To that I remind people that they always have 3 choices:
- You can leave things as they are
- You can make it worse or
- You can make it better
Your happiness is up to you!
Connect with me if you’d like to know more about REALationship Coaching.
@nadiathonnard.com
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